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What's on the CD player?

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yes-big generator in the truck, rush- moving pictures and sketchbook-john pattituci at home. jeff

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The Offspring – Conspiracy of One JackMove (some friends of mine band) – Too Pissed for Hard Love AC/DC – Highway to Hell The Marvelous 3 – forgot the album name My bands demo ;-) Wes – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Thought I’d start something totally non-hostile here.  Sorry if it’s rather old and/or unimaginative… Curious as to what y’all are listening to lately.  It doesn’t necessarily have to be bass-related but what is getting some regular rotation on the AGBer’s ‘turntables’ these days? For me, I’ve been mixing in some of my old vinyl lately. (For those who don’t "remember" vinyl, we’ll save that for another post, or another ng!) In regular rotation:  Sea Level – "Cats On The Coast" and "On The Edge"                                 Elvis – "My Aim Is True" and "This Years Model"                                 Dave Weckl – "Synergy" (this one’s a CD)                                 The Blasters – "Testament"  (also CD x2)

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Let’s see, (in no particular order), lately I’ve been listening to: Gillian Welch, Terri Allard, John Hiatt, the Ramones, the Clash, Emmy Lou Harris, Del McCoury, Rhonda Vincent, Elvis Costello, Dwight Yoakum, the Derailers the Wailers Toots and Maytalls Somewhat electic, eh? John

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A compilation MD I made titled ‘pop songs’ (with thanks to KaZaa).Had it blasting through the windows as I fixed a broken seat from my van on the front lawn ‘cos the weather was nice… SR Track listing : Little Feat – Dixie Chicken (live) Richard Thompson – Black Crow (live Joni tribute) Richard Thompson and Tim Finn – Persuasion (live) New Radicals – You Only Get What You Give (love the bass lines in this) Goldfinger – Feel Like Makin Love (Free fans will hate me for this) ABBA – One Of Us All Saints – Never Ever Bucks Fizz (yes,really) – The Land Of Make Believe (I use this track to embarass my niece who was 10 yrs old when this hit the charts and could do the dance routine while singing along) Friends Of Distinction – Grazin’ in the Grass Barbra Streisand – Rain On My Parade Eternal – I Wanna Be The One Linda Lewis – Rock A Doodle Doo Paul McCartney – My Brave Face

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In the CD player: Joni Mitchell   – Don_Juans_Reckless_Daughter The Flock – The Flock Eric Burdon declares War If my old turn table would work it would play some Venyl: Back Door – Another Fine Mess Ossibisa   – the first LP Greatest Show on Earth  - The goings easy Cheers Heinz

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Have you ever noticed that no one ever says "I currently have the new Justine (sic) Timberlake/Kylie/Agulara(sp?) cd on." Many people always are like, "Yeah, I have Marcus Miller, Jaco P and Mingus playing at the moment, later I plan to put on some Weather Report and some little known motown with the best Jamerson lines out"…. I reckon that atleast some of those in this camp are dancing around  in their pants to Rock Your Body as we speak…. I know I am! But seriously, I like that song, it makes me smile and feel like the 5 year old that first listened to Off the Wall…. neal. N/P: Rock Your Body- Justin Timberlake

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In the car right now, which is where I do 90% of my listening: Jamaaladeen Tacuma – "Renaissance Man" – a MONSTER bass player. A CD of Indian ragas played on Sargangi and Tabla Black Sabbath – "Vol 4" Cheap Trick "Heaven Tonight" (somewhere under the passenger seat). I’ve also been on a classical music kick; I listen to the NPR classical station a lot. — John Check out www.js3jazz.com to hear my tunes and get FREE bass lessons

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Thought I’d start something totally non-hostile here.  Sorry if it’s rather old and/or unimaginative… Curious as to what y’all are listening to lately.  It doesn’t necessarily have to be bass-related but what is getting some regular rotation on the AGBer’s ‘turntables’ these days? For me, I’ve been mixing in some of my old vinyl lately. (For those who don’t "remember" vinyl, we’ll save that for another post, or another ng!) In regular rotation:  Sea Level – "Cats On The Coast" and "On The Edge"                                 Elvis – "My Aim Is True" and "This Years Model"                                 Dave Weckl – "Synergy" (this one’s a CD)                                 The Blasters – "Testament"  (also CD x2)

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Turin Brakes – Ether Song.  Ahhh lovely… D :)

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On the CD Joe Pass & Niels Henning-Oersted Petersen – Chops Oliver Nelson – Blues & the Abstract Truth Miles Davis – Miles Smiles Tommy Flanagan – Let’s Cedar Walton – Composer on the DVD player Bela Fleck & the Flecktones – Live at the Quick S&y

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Thought I’d start something totally non-hostile here.  Sorry if it’s rather old and/or unimaginative… Curious as to what y’all are listening to lately.  It doesn’t necessarily have to be bass-related but what is getting some regular rotation on the AGBer’s ‘turntables’ these days? For me, I’ve been mixing in some of my old vinyl lately. (For those who don’t "remember" vinyl, we’ll save that for another post, or another ng!) In regular rotation:  Sea Level – "Cats On The Coast" and "On The Edge"                                 Elvis – "My Aim Is True" and "This Years Model"                                 Dave Weckl – "Synergy" (this one’s a CD)                                 The Blasters – "Testament"  (also CD x2)

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news.ops.worldnet.att.net: Curious as to what y’all are listening to lately.  It doesn’t necessarily have to be bass-related but what is getting some regular rotation on the AGBer’s ‘turntables’ these days?

Didn’t sleep very well last night and listened to Ornette Coleman’s "The Shape of Jazz to Come" something like seven times… how’s that? Also some King Crimson… — Leo Herranen

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1. Marcus Miller "The Ozell Tapes; MM Live" 2. Tower of Power "The Warner Years" 3. Tower of Power "Oakland Zone" 4. Godsmack "Faceless" 5. Metallica "Metallica" (Black Album) Kindest Wishes, B

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Thought I’d start something totally non-hostile here.  Sorry if it’s rather old and/or unimaginative… Curious as to what y’all are listening to lately.  It doesn’t necessarily have to be bass-related but what is getting some regular rotation on the AGBer’s ‘turntables’ these days? For me, I’ve been mixing in some of my old vinyl lately. (For those who don’t "remember" vinyl, we’ll save that for another post, or another ng!) In regular rotation:  Sea Level – "Cats On The Coast" and "On The Edge"                                 Elvis – "My Aim Is True" and "This Years Model"                                 Dave Weckl – "Synergy" (this one’s a CD)                                 The Blasters – "Testament"  (also CD x2)

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What???? No Deep Purple?? Cheers Heinz – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Currently I am listening to: David Lee Roth  Eat Em And Smile Alcatrazz Live Sentence(Graham Bonnet kicks ass) Hans

Speechless with sexual fantasy (was Re: TERRORIST ATTACKS ON THE USA)

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i didnt say he had prolems with chi he mentioned he was in to nadis clearing tibetan energy meditation to work with his winds and channels crap i was concerned in that energy mediations of those Speedy Chakra Tune types act by reachin the autonomic system to pump the cooresponding endocrine glands which can cause bodily damage like being on an adrenalin IV  drip

Have you done what you are talking about, or are you just doc killdar on the prowl (poor namdrol :-) liaM

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i didnt say he had prolems .. i was concerned …

who said that tang said that you said what you say you didn’t say ? liaM

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: : : Like, do I care? Alex: Pretty careless person, aren’t ya? : I hope not Sphere.   The posting below is beneath even my worst previous : opionions of the person. : Hard to believe that anyone would still be "keeping score" at a time like : this, much less for a moments wryly posted wish for escape from an awful : reality. Alex: Understood. Odd, but understood. Everyone has their own way of expressing their suffering.

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Evelyn: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -"Dear Namdrol, Can’t I be the sexy teenager in the midriff baring outfit with all the earrings and the rose tattoo? Love, Ev" To be sure, Namdrol said in his post "Re: Flat earth and rebirth", which was what she replied to: "dar = crazy uncle Namdrol = West Point Grad Tang = Maoist Grad Student Punnadhammo = Priest DT = vain old grandfather Sphere = intellectual Evelyn = long suffering grandmother."

That’s funny. I’m probably the youngest on the list. So, she was "speechless with sorrow", posted the "TERRORIST ATTACKS ON THE USA" to ARBT, and just *two minutes later* on the same board, posted the above "the sexy teenager in the midriff baring outfit

Sounds like Ev’s having as much fun as I am, then. Just a few minutes ago, Klaus/Schlomo wrote about DT: "There are no limits to the imagination, but I don’t expect fantasies of this kind to be put into practice." I didn’t expect Evelyn to post her overt sexual fantasy just two minutes after her first "speechless with sorrow" post

Why not? I switch tones as soon as I hit the ’send’ button too. The only time Ev doesn’t switch tones is when she is insulting you. You should be criticising her rigidity, not her flexibility, eh? I am aware of the seriousness of the jetliner crashes, and would not wish to turn the sad situation into frivolous hilarity.

Oh lighten up, Tang. It’s sick that these 3rd world scum want to take down anyone who has worked hard and attained success, freedom, and democracy. But being too serious about anything is only for rigid old farts. Better to not wallow in fear, and instead rally around how we are going to kick some 3rd world butt. Daddy Bush was such a wimp and didn’t take Bhagdad. This time we need to find out what lowlifes are behind these sadistic cowardly acts, and then finish the job and kick their asses for good this time. –DT

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Vous parler tr

Indentifying song with RAB lyrics

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I’ve got this song going through my head.. well.. bits and pieces.. but I think I’m mis-remembering them.  And it’s driving me nuts. I’ve spent the last 2 hours trying to figure out what song this is.  I’m hoping rab can help me out.  I think the song has some rab comment, and so maybe someone here knows what the hell is stuck in my mind! I think the tune is more spoken word than sung really.  Maybe from the mid-late 90’s.  Song is about a guy who is involved with a mysterious girl who has a tattoo (I *think* rose tattoo).  And he wants to ask about it but doesn’t.  Finally she talks about it? Ringing any bells? help? :-< Thanks, mrc —     We are all of us living in the shadow of Manhattan.  – Watchmen fatal ("You are in a maze of twisty compiler features, all different"); — gcc

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I think the tune is more spoken word than sung really.  Maybe from the mid-late 90’s.  Song is about a guy who is involved with a mysterious girl who has a tattoo (I *think* rose tattoo).  And he wants to ask about it but doesn’t.  Finally she talks about it?

I seem to recall playing a song at my college radio station called "The Tattooed Rose" (I think) by an artist named something like Brother Greg or Brother Gregory. This would’ve been 1991-2 or so. I recall in the song she threatens to kill him, but doesn’t. M.

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O/T – Lyrics To "Dream On" by Aerosmith

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tis o.k. *smile* your still lucky. — Blessed Be, Daisy

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – to be honest, I don’t remember *grin* — to email: remove _antispam_ from above http://members.bellatlantic.net/~z9073/pbn/pbn.html Pagan Broadcast Network http://webhost.bridgew.edu/jllavoie /noserialmice Online Poetry Magazine MM Jennifer,     You are one lucky woman, I have never seen Aerosmith in concert *pout* I want to before Steven Tyler loses his voice perminently tho *giggle* — Blessed Be, Daisy lol  back in the day *grin* when I was like 3 or 5, my parents used to take me to North Park in Fall River,MA to see their free concerts!  :) They filmed a video in a wonderful building here recently…The song cryin was filmed (in part) in the Church on Rock Street Cheers Jennifer — to email: remove _antispam_ from above http://members.bellatlantic.net/~z9073/pbn/pbn.html Pagan Broadcast Network http://webhost.bridgew.edu/jllavoie /noserialmice Online Poetry Magazine "Someone_searching2letstrythisac"

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – MM Everybody, err Anybody, Oh sod it I know who’s going to read this, lol – too early in morn., brain not functioning, need more coffee, lol ;) Dream On Every time when I look in the mirror All these lines on my face getting clearer The past is gone it went by, like dusk to dawn Isn’t that the way Everybody’s got the dues in life to pay I know nobody knows where it comes and where it goes I know it’s everybody sin You got to lose to know how to win Half my life is books  written pages live and love from fools and from sages You know it’s true,OH All these things come back to you Sing with me, sing for the years Sing for the laughter, sing for the tears Sing with me, just for today Maybe tomorrow, the good lord will take you away Yeah, sing with me, sing for the year sing for the laughter, sing for the tear sing with me, just for today Maybe tomorrow, the good Lord will take you away Dream On Dream On Dream On Dream until your dreams come true Dream On Dream On Dream On Dream until your dreams come true Dream On Dream On Dream On Dream On Dream On Dream On Dream On Sing with me, sing for the year sing for the laughter, sing for the tear sing with me,just for today Maybe tomorrow, the good Lord will take you away Sing with me, sing for the year sing for the laughter, sing for the tear Sing with me, just for today Maybe tomorrow, the good Lord will take you away…… The website with this on is: http://wings.dartmouth.edu/~aero/lyrics.html Coffee, coffee need more coffee lol ;) BB Someone Searching Someone Searching Got questions?  Get answers over the phone at Keen.com. Up to 100 minutes free! http://www.keen.com

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OHHH My….Poison…. they were here in San Antonio a month ago!  LOL   No blue Rose, have a black rose going through a heart though! :P Missy

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I think someone’s bored.  :)  Me too.  Thanks for posting, though.  This song and "Every Rose Has Its Thorn" are the two songs I am most connected to and moved by.  I even have a little blue rose tattoo on my ankle!  :) love, Laura

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OHHH My….Poison…. they were here in San Antonio a month ago!  LOL   No blue Rose, have a black rose going through a heart though! :P Missy

I saw them when they were touring with Warrant (yum) and Ratt (oh, yum Stephen Pearcy) last year and they were at the Woodlands Pavilion just outside of Houston. Took me back to being 12 again.  :) But this time I could drink.  :)

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MM Laura Yes very bored – wish they would make stronger coffee though ;) Ahh I remember "Every rose…." – twas nice song :) Aww you got tattoo – was going to get a Celtic cross on my arm till I seen price,

NSBM, Stupid trend

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You’re kidding, right?  If you want to kill people for being close to animals, then why stop at people?  It’s those who deny their own animal nature that we need to get rid of, IMO.

You guys forget how overpopulated we are.  We should kill everyone who cannot move independently, intellectually, without social justification. —     SUPPORT THE JUDEO-CHRISTIAN-AMERICAN HOLOCAUST            PUT THE GUILTY IN THE OVENS http://www.geocities.com/godinverter/ http://www.calvarium.com/holocaust/ Before you buy.

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You’re kidding, right?  If you want to kill people for being close to animals, then why stop at people?  It’s those who deny their own animal nature that we need to get rid of, IMO. You guys forget how overpopulated we are.  We should kill everyone who cannot move independently, intellectually, without social justification.

I never forgot.  I just don’t think targeting people who resemble animals is effective.  Civilization is an attempt to contain animal impulses – the result is that honest (and ecologically harmless) impulses are channeled into stupid and harmful activities.  Get rid of civilization, and the overpopulation problem will solve itself. — "In ihren Reihen zu stehen heisst unter Feinden zu kaempfen" – Abigor

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because the original Aryans were an Indian tribe, and the Swastika is an Indian symbol. Actually the Swastika (The Crooked Cross) can be found worldwide, even in ancient American Indian tribes. Well there can be found versions of it… but the actual swastika is a sanskrit symbol and it is supposedly a good luck bringer

The name for the symbol ’swa-astik’ is Skt. – the symbol itself seems to be universal. But the original indian tribe called aryans were white they moved around a lot and finally settled in persia and are the origin of the white people there… which do excist

They settled for awhile in Persia or Iran. Successful at invasion apparently due partly to the ability to shoot arrows from horseback with great accuracy due to stability from iron stirrups – which no-one else had invented yet. The word ‘Iran’ is linguistically related to the word ‘aryan’  (as is the name ‘Alan’ but whatever…) My understanding is that they split in Iran into two groups: one group went east into the Indian subcontinent, and the other moved into Phoenicia — Europe. I don’t really have a sense when all this was happening though. 3000 – 2000 BCE perhaps? Sharund — Demon Realm – Wrathful aggressive black metal Dominion Of Demon Realm website http://www.darkmetal.com/demonrealm/ Subscribe to the Demon Realm newsletter

– X E P H E R 6 6 6 "Take my soul away to the dark – bring me a thousand morbid dreams. No tomorrow when the wind caresses my mind – could I ever return it will be at my doom."

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You guys forget how overpopulated we are.  We should kill everyone who cannot move independently, intellectually, without social justification. I never forgot.  I just don’t think targeting people who resemble animals is effective.  Civilization is an attempt to contain animal impulses – the result is that honest (and ecologically harmless) impulses are channeled into stupid and harmful activities.  Get rid of civilization, and the overpopulation problem will solve itself.

Even given that improvement (- civilization), there are still too many humans for the ecosystem.  Hence, a genocide is part of any well-balanced plan for world renewal.  Not to mention the quality dope we can grow with the corpse compost! —     SUPPORT THE JUDEO-CHRISTIAN-AMERICAN HOLOCAUST            PUT THE GUILTY IN THE OVENS http://www.geocities.com/godinverter/ http://www.calvarium.com/holocaust/ Before you buy.

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Do any of you like Black Metal at all?If you fuckin’ do then stop shitting around all the time!I said it before and I’ll say it again:Nazism used in BM does not make it look bad(or at least it does not make it look worse than it already is)…People who listen to BM are practically ready for anything,and if you ask me I listen to the music,I don’t pay too much attention to the sigil the front man is wearing around his neck!Whether it’s a baphomet,an upsidedwon cross,the iron cross,the regular cross…Metal is metal and we have to keep on fighting for it no matter what!I don’t think anything special about NS and the whole thing,it’s not 1941!!!

Well said. —     SUPPORT THE JUDEO-CHRISTIAN-AMERICAN HOLOCAUST            PUT THE GUILTY IN THE OVENS http://www.geocities.com/godinverter/ http://www.calvarium.com/holocaust/ Before you buy.

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because the original Aryans were an Indian tribe, and the Swastika is an Indian symbol. Actually the Swastika (The Crooked Cross) can be found worldwide, even in ancient American Indian tribes.

Well there can be found versions of it… but the actual swastika is a sanskrit symbol and it is supposedly a good luck bringer But the original indian tribe called aryans were white they moved around a lot and finally settled in persia and are the origin of the white people there… which do excist Sharund — Demon Realm – Wrathful aggressive black metal Dominion Of Demon Realm website http://www.darkmetal.com/demonrealm/ Subscribe to the Demon Realm newsletter

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The quotation you included here is not from Joerg Haider, but from a district politician who cannot speak for the whole country.

Go figure the anti-Nazi forces in here would be lying. and Xenophobia can be found in every country of the world, and there are lots of countries who have implemented their xenophobia into politics, however, if Austria would do it, everybody would get shocked because of its past.

Exactly.  It’s a double standard. —     SUPPORT THE JUDEO-CHRISTIAN-AMERICAN HOLOCAUST            PUT THE GUILTY IN THE OVENS http://www.geocities.com/godinverter/ http://www.calvarium.com/holocaust/ Before you buy.

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because the original Aryans were an Indian tribe, and the Swastika is an Indian symbol.

Actually the Swastika (The Crooked Cross) can be found worldwide, even in ancient American Indian tribes.

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the world doesn’t need an "ethnic cleansing."  it needs a massive reduction of human population, effective on all races,

Hear hear! starting with all the aggressive and ambitious people, who are the nearest to animals and are the cause of all decline past the neolithic stage of human civilization.

heard.  If not for agressive, ambitious people, we couldn’t be having this conversation – it was the survival instinct that caused man to build this world and keep inventing things, like fire, electricity, the internet, refining processes of creating food, potable water, transportation, storage and dissemination of information, etc. Of course, what’s happened now is what always happens when there is progress in any animal organization – those who have adapted have the choice to either keep adapting and improving, or just say ‘haven’t we done enough’ and then get overrun and surpassed by those who keep adapting. being vicious and stupid helps a race survive to a point, but after that, it can only be a hindrance.

Wrong wrong wrong wrong wrong.  well, you’re right about stupidity – there is no place for that.  BUT, viciousness can never be a hindrance in and of itself – it can be misdirected, agreed, but that doesn’t make it always wrong.  When agression is directed ‘inside’ the group in such a way that the progress of the group as a whole is hindered it is wrong – but when directed towards progress of the group it contributes to continued survival.  And those people who refuse to be agressive?  Well, ever hear the joke about the two guys in the jungle who hear a tiger approaching?  One guy starts wondering aloud "What are we going to do?" while the other starts putting on running shoes.  The first one asks "why are you changing shoes?  You’ll never outrun the tiger."  The second one replies, "I don’t have to outrun the TIGER…."  The sooner you decide which guy you belong with the better for the rest of us. —– Lord Vic – mastermind of RAMPAGE thetruerampage.cjb.net Before you buy.

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the world doesn’t need an "ethnic cleansing."  it needs a massive reduction of human population, effective on all races, starting with all the aggressive and ambitious people, who are the nearest to animals and are the cause of all decline past the neolithic stage of human civilization. being vicious and stupid helps a race survive to a point, but after that, it can only be a hindrance.

You’re kidding, right?  If you want to kill people for being close to animals, then why stop at people?  It’s those who deny their own animal nature that we need to get rid of, IMO. — "In ihren Reihen zu stehen heisst unter Feinden zu kaempfen" – Abigor

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You know what? Do any of you like Black Metal at all?If you fuckin’ do then stop shitting around all the time!I said it before and I’ll say it again:Nazism used in BM does not make it look bad(or at least it does not make it look worse than it already is)…People who listen to BM are practically ready for anything,and if you ask me I listen to the music,I don’t pay too much attention to the sigil the front man is wearing around his neck!Whether it’s a baphomet,an upsidedwon cross,the iron cross,the regular cross…Metal is metal and we have to keep on fighting for it no matter what!I don’t think anything special about NS and the whole thing,it’s not 1941!!!Personally, I’m more interested in the arts of magick that surround the individual! Teach Children To Worship Metal(Satan)!!! Mortifer – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I snipped the rest of that message as I am only replying to the use of the word "Aryan." every Nazi skinhead (and every other proponent of white power) I’ve met has had a great dislike for Asian-Indians (ie Indians from India). You haven’t met many then.  Most are familiar with the term Indo-European at this point in history. particularly demonstrative of their idiocy, because the original Aryans were an Indian tribe, and the Swastika is an Indian symbol.  then Not true again, facts mean nothing to blind, sheep-like follower types, which is what every Nazi skin, KKK member, fundamentalist Muslim, or any other advocate of racial superiority is. Except for those who sheep-like preach against racism, right? the world doesn’t need an "ethnic cleansing."  it needs a massive reduction of human population, effective on all races, starting with all the aggressive and ambitious people, Ok, let’s shoot the Jews first. —     SUPPORT THE JUDEO-CHRISTIAN-AMERICAN HOLOCAUST            PUT THE GUILTY IN THE OVENS http://www.geocities.com/godinverter/ http://www.calvarium.com/holocaust/ Before you buy.

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I snipped the rest of that message as I am only replying to the use of the word "Aryan." every Nazi skinhead (and every other proponent of white power) I’ve met has had a great dislike for Asian-Indians (ie Indians from India).

You haven’t met many then.  Most are familiar with the term Indo-European at this point in history. particularly demonstrative of their idiocy, because the original Aryans were an Indian tribe, and the Swastika is an Indian symbol.  then

Not true again, facts mean nothing to blind, sheep-like follower types, which is what every Nazi skin, KKK member, fundamentalist Muslim, or any other advocate of racial superiority is.

Except for those who sheep-like preach against racism, right? the world doesn’t need an "ethnic cleansing."  it needs a massive reduction of human population, effective on all races, starting with all the aggressive and ambitious people,

Ok, let’s shoot the Jews first. —     SUPPORT THE JUDEO-CHRISTIAN-AMERICAN HOLOCAUST            PUT THE GUILTY IN THE OVENS http://www.geocities.com/godinverter/ http://www.calvarium.com/holocaust/ Before you buy.

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I can

Songs for an inspiration tape? Suggestions?

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I am making a tape to play when I need to feel like life will go on no matter what. As a lot of you know, I am is a state of limbo with my (not sure what to call her yet) and I have moments where I can do  nothing but cry. Yesterday I heard Gloria Gaynor singing I Will Survive on the radio and I played it as loud as my sound system would play it and it I think I actually felt a little better when it was over. Nothing had changed, but I had let out a lot of emotion by singing loudly and dancing in my car seat. (I am sure I was quite a site to those around me but I really don’t care) Do any of you have any songs that help you? Another one that I think may work for me is Wild World by Cat Stevens.

I was considering this question, in the light of Daisy’s request for song selections for the asd site. For you, we can suggest many tunes, as it won’t be about loading one song into the site. So, lets have a look. I’ve been getting into what’s called " new country ", and, on my drive out to LA, I heard a *lot* of stations playing it, all over. So, you might have heard some of these songs. Faith Hill: You Give Me Love, The Secret Of Life, Just To Hear You Say That You Love Me, Let Me Let Go. All on her CD, " Faith ". Mindy McCready: You’ll Never Know. Deana Carter: Absence Of The Heart. Trisha Yearwood: There Goes My Baby, I’ll Still Love You More, Where Your Road Leads. Terri Clark: Better Things To Do. Farmer’s Daughter: Now That I’m On My Own, Blue Horizon. LeAnn Rimes: Commitment, One Way Ticket ( Because I Can ). JoDee Messina: Bye Bye, I’m Doing All Right. Sara Evans: No Place That Far. ( In case you’re noting the preponderance of women artists here, they speak more to me than most male performers have, lately. Though, I have many discs by men such as Tim McGraw to add ) With Rock, one might suggest… Meatloaf: Life Is A Lemon And I Want My Money Back, Paradise By The Dashboard Light, Not A Dry Eye In The House. And, the Moody Blues duo, from two different CD’s, though the two videos are one story: I Know You’re Out There Somewhere, Your Wildest Dreams. That should be a start. Oh, and add the soundtrack from The Commitments movie, too. You know what the killer of my situation is. I feel such a need to go back to her that it over-rides my need for emotional self-preservation. My brain says that there are too many red flags and my heart says that true love is patient and couragous and no price is too high for this woman. I feel like I am climbing a really high mountain without oxygen and in deteriating weather conditions. I should turn back but my desire for the summit won’t let me. I have become blinded to the reality of the situation and with every step I take toward the summit (her) I move closer to my own demise. Sadly, the fact that I conciously realize this changes nothing. I am going to see a counselor on Monday. Maybe that will help. At least I will be able to talk to someone and not keep this all to myself. You all are really a godsend! Thank you so very much!!

The basic advice is that no one who can do such to you, is worth your losing yourself over, and that includes doing self destructive things to yourself. You know that that’s what you’re doing, so resolve to stop doing that, and then, make that resolution stick. Day by day, hour by hour. It’s damned tough, but there just is no other way. PS if anyone wants to give me their impressions on my last post, I could really use the advice, thanks Brad

Andre — " The noblest achievement of the imagination is to make time run some other way, and terminate in beauty and forgivness "                                          David Gelernter, " 1939 "

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – A couple of my fav CD’s are ones that are compilations of music from the 60’s Gerry Anderson " Supermarionation " shows, including Fireball XL5, Stingray, Thunderbirds, Captain Scarlet, Joe 90, and UFO and Space 1999 ( about which we now know that the moon *didn’t* lave orbit thirteen days ago ). Barry Grey wrote some amazingly good music for those shows. In fact, the recent HBO miniseries " From The Earth To The Moon " used the closing theme from Fireball as the opener to one episode. There’s even a Dire Straits video that not only fearures much from Thunderbirds, both vehicles, and characters, but also has the band represented with the same style of puppets. That was " Calling Elvis ". Need I add that I have most of those shows on tape ? They hold us *amazingly* well, even after some thirty plus years. Hmm  My stbx would probably enjoy those, but I think we’ll just have to agree on you & I having very different tastes in music here <g

Well, this is just one area of music that I like. I’ve several SF soundtracks on tape, and CD, but that total would likely be under twenty of them, out of a music collection of many hundreds of albums. I also listen to a lot of classical, classic rock, and new country, for the most. Much of which I get from the radio, with the classical and jazz ( did I mention that one ? ) coming from CBC Radio 2. So, we could likely find some musical similarities in our tastes… — From AnotherOne (To reply, please remove NOSPAM   )

Andre — " The noblest achievement of the imagination is to make time run some other way, and terminate in beauty and forgivness "                                          David Gelernter, " 1939 "

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hiya Andre,   :-) I’ve several SF soundtracks on tape,

<g Just our of curiousity – Would you, by any slim chance, (and I know that I’m really reaching here…) have a copy of the theme from the *original* "Star Trek" *with* the lyrics? Best  - BD (… strange love a star woman teach-es…<g )

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hiya Andre,   :-) I’ve several SF soundtracks on tape, <g Just our of curiousity – Would you, by any slim chance, (and I know that I’m really reaching here…) have a copy of the theme from the *original* "Star Trek" *with* the lyrics?

I checked my vinyl collection down below, and it seems that the version of the theme on the Inside Star Trek LP, is one without the lyrics. Now, you can find the theme with notes and lyrics in the book Inside Star Trek, by Solow and Justman ( my copy hails from LA Con 3 of 1996, where I acquired it for a third off, and got it signed by the two authors ) and it tells of the tale that Roddenberry only wrote the lyrics in order to legally claim half of the monies generated by the royalties on the theme. Apparantly, the lyrics were rarely used, and Alexander Courage points out in the book, they’re seriously musically flawed. Pages 178 to 185 of the hardcover edition have the notes, lyrics, and the story. The lyrics go: The rim of the star light My love… is wan-d’ring in star flight I know he’ll find in star clustered reaches Love strange, love a star woman teaches I know His journey ends never   His star trek will go on forever But tell him while he wanders his starry sea Remember, remember me… Not bad for half of the money… Best  - BD (… strange love a star woman teach-es…<g )

Some far stranger than most… <g Andre — " The noblest achievement of the imagination is to make time run some other way, and terminate in beauty and forgivness "                                          David Gelernter, " 1939 "

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Anyone heard the song "She’s Gonna Make It…" by Garth Brooks?  Good for the ladies…listened to it all the time after I finally left my son’s father…

Yeah, though as a guy, the rest of that sentence ("and he never will", or some such) is kind of depressing).  On the Garth Brooks list, I’d add "Learning to Live Again" (I think that’s the title).                                             Chris — Rens-se-LEER is a county.  RENS-se-ler is a city.  R-P-I is a school!

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Chris… That is a great song!!  I listened to it all the time

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Anyone heard the song "She’s Gonna Make It…" by Garth Brooks?  Good for the ladies…listened to it all the time after I finally left my son’s father… Yeah, though as a guy, the rest of that sentence ("and he never will", or some such) is kind of depressing).  On the Garth Brooks list, I’d add "Learning to Live Again" (I think that’s the title).                                             Chris — Rens-se-LEER is a county.  RENS-se-ler is a city.  R-P-I is a school!

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For guys, just switch it around when you sing it at the top of your lungs…"he’s gonna make it, she never will…" That will work too! Anita – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Anyone heard the song "She’s Gonna Make It…" by Garth Brooks?  Good for the ladies…listened to it all the time after I finally left my son’s father… Yeah, though as a guy, the rest of that sentence ("and he never will", or some such) is kind of depressing).  On the Garth Brooks list, I’d add "Learning to Live Again" (I think that’s the title).                                             Chris — Rens-se-LEER is a county.  RENS-se-ler is a city.  R-P-I is a school!

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – A couple of my fav CD’s are ones that are compilations of music from the 60’s Gerry Anderson " Supermarionation " shows, including Fireball XL5, Stingray, Thunderbirds, Captain Scarlet, Joe 90, and UFO and Space 1999 ( about which we now know that the moon *didn’t* lave orbit thirteen days ago ). Barry Grey wrote some amazingly good music for those shows. In fact, the recent HBO miniseries " From The Earth To The Moon " used the closing theme from Fireball as the opener to one episode. There’s even a Dire Straits video that not only fearures much from Thunderbirds, both vehicles, and characters, but also has the band represented with the same style of puppets. That was " Calling Elvis ". Need I add that I have most of those shows on tape ? They hold us *amazingly* well, even after some thirty plus years.

Hmm  My stbx would probably enjoy those, but I think we’ll just have to agree on you & I having very different tastes in music here <g — From AnotherOne (To reply, please remove NOSPAM   )    http://www.newsfeeds.com       The Largest Usenet Servers in the World!

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I posted this before, but I’ll post it again—the Moody Blues new CD is wonderful, full of inspiration, not too sickly sweet, some a bittersweet about lost love….I recommend it highly

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One point that she’d appreciate, though… her last name is Messina. Thanks, I left my cd in a friends car after a trip we took :( and havent’ seen her to get it back yet.  I’m terrible remembering artist’s names

Yep, I’m sometimes that way, too. I still have a tough time keeping LeAnn Rimes and Lila McCann clear as to which is which. I’ve been taping a lot of good stuff, including putting together some " theme " tapes, ones that I like to drive with. My tastes are fairly eclectic, at times.  Who else do you know of, that likes certain 60’s TV themes ? If you want a couple more of hers that really crank up the funk, try " Heads Carolina, Tails California ", and " Bye Bye ". Great stuff. That they are, enjoy both of them.

Hmm… Terri Clark’s " Better Things To Do ", and JoDee’s " Bye, Bye " both have the singers driving a convertible around the guy that they’re dumping. An interesting theme… <g Dawn

Andre — " The noblest achievement of the imagination is to make time run some other way, and terminate in beauty and forgivness "                                          David Gelernter, " 1939 "

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Anyone heard the song "She’s Gonna Make It…" by Garth Brooks?  Good for the ladies…listened to it all the time after I finally left my son’s father… Anita – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Definately "I’m Doing Alright" by JoDee Mecina.  Took a trip to town one morning without the kids a week or so ago, and set the cd player on repeat the whole way.  (about a half hour drive)  Cranked it up, and sang along, over and over.  I may have been hoarse when I got there, but my spirit sure felt good! Dawn "Always be a first rate version of yourself instead of a second rate version of somebody else."

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One point that she’d appreciate, though… her last name is Messina.

Thanks, I left my cd in a friends car after a trip we took :( and havent’ seen her to get it back yet.  I’m terrible remembering artist’s names usually, I can If you want a couple more of hers that really crank up the funk, try " Heads Carolina, Tails California ", and " Bye Bye ". Great stuff.

That they are, enjoy both of them. Dawn Andre — " The noblest achievement of the imagination is to make time run some other way, and terminate in beauty and forgivness "                                         David Gelernter, " 1939 "

Dawn "Always be a first rate version of yourself instead of a second rate version of somebody else."

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Definately "I’m Doing Alright" by JoDee Mecina.  Took a trip to town one morning without the kids a week or so ago, and set the cd player on repeat the whole way.  (about a half hour drive)  Cranked it up, and sang along, over and over.  I may have been hoarse when I got there, but my spirit sure felt good!

Hi Dawn. Glad you like that song, JoDee’s been one of my favs in that area of music. CMT ran a good video bio on her, a while ago. One point that she’d appreciate, though… her last name is Messina. If you want a couple more of hers that really crank up the funk, try " Heads Carolina, Tails California ", and " Bye Bye ". Great stuff. Dawn

Andre — " The noblest achievement of the imagination is to make time run some other way, and terminate in beauty and forgivness "                                          David Gelernter, " 1939 "

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Definately "I’m Doing Alright" by JoDee Mecina.  Took a trip to town one morning without the kids a week or so ago, and set the cd player on repeat the whole way.  (about a half hour drive)  Cranked it up, and sang along, over and over.  I may have been hoarse when I got there, but my spirit sure felt good! Dawn "Always be a first rate version of yourself instead of a second rate version of somebody else."

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I am making a tape to play when I need to feel like life will go on no matter what. As a lot of you know, I am is a state of limbo with my (not sure what to call her yet) and I have moments where I can do  nothing but cry. Yesterday I heard Gloria Gaynor singing I Will Survive on the radio and I played it as loud as my sound system would play it and it I think I actually felt a little better when it was over. Nothing had changed, but I had let out a lot of emotion by singing loudly and dancing in my car seat. (I am sure I was quite a site to those around me but I really don’t care) Do any of you have any songs that help you? Another one that I think may work for me is Wild World by Cat Stevens. You know what the killer of my situation is. I feel such a need to go back to her that it over-rides my need for emotional self-preservation. My brain says that there are too many red flags and my heart says that true love is patient and couragous and no price is too high for this woman. I feel like I am climbing a really high mountain without oxygen and in deteriating weather conditions. I should turn back but my desire for the summit won’t let me. I have become blinded to the reality of the situation and with every step I take toward the summit (her) I move closer to my own demise. Sadly, the fact that I conciously realize this changes nothing. I am going to see a counselor on Monday. Maybe that will help. At least I will be able to talk to someone and not keep this all to myself. You all are really a godsend! Thank you so very much!! PS if anyone wants to give me their impressions on my last post, I could really use the advice, thanks Brad

There’s a wide range of styles below, but they’re all pretty inspiring songs. There should be something you relate to, although I suspect Rose Tattoo might be a bit hard for you to get hold of. <g We are the Champions   -Queen The Best                        - Tina Turner Never Say Die  -Sweatshop Born to Be Alive – Patrick Hernandez You got nothing I want – Cold Chisel When the going gets tough, the tough get going   -Billy Ocean Nothing’s gonna stop you now – Loverboy We Can’t be Beaten  -Rose Tattoo You gotta be -Desree Search for the hero – MPeople Winners take all  - Quiet Riot Eye of the tiger  -Survivor Nothing’s gonna stop us now  -Jefferson Straship Hold your head up    - The party boys Anything is possible – Icehouse You can make it if you try – Sly & the Family Stone Respect yourself  -The Kane Gang Shout it to the top  -the Style Council You can get it if you really want – Jimmy Cliff Break My stride   – Unique II Everyone is King – The Black Sorrows Hit me with your best shot -Pat Benetar The Warrior  - Scandal Celebration – Dragon Willpower – Taylor Dayne Bound for Glory      - Angry Holding out for a hero – Bonnie Tyler From the Heart – Weddings Parties Anything And just for any ladies reading this list ….. Sisters are doing it for themselves – Eurythmics — From AnotherOne (To reply, please remove NOSPAM   )    http://www.newsfeeds.com       The Largest Usenet Servers in the World!

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I am making a tape to play when I need to feel like life will go on no matter what. As a lot of you know, I am is a state of limbo with my (not sure what to call her yet) and I have moments where I can do  nothing but cry. Yesterday I heard Gloria Gaynor singing I Will Survive on the radio and I played it as loud as my sound system would play it and it I think I actually felt a little better when it was over. Nothing had changed, but I had let out a lot of emotion by singing loudly and dancing in my car seat. (I am sure I was quite a site to those around me but I really don’t care) Do any of you have any songs that help you? Another one that I think may work for me is Wild World by Cat Stevens. You know what the killer of my situation is. I feel such a need to go back to her that it over-rides my need for emotional self-preservation. My brain says that there are too many red flags and my heart says that true love is patient and couragous and no price is too high for this woman. I feel like I am climbing a really high mountain without oxygen and in deteriating weather conditions. I should turn back but my desire for the summit won’t let me. I have become blinded to the reality of the situation and with every step I take toward the summit (her) I move closer to my own demise. Sadly, the fact that I conciously realize this changes nothing. I am going to see a counselor on Monday. Maybe that will help. At least I will be able to talk to someone and not keep this all to myself. You all are really a godsend! Thank you so very much!! PS if anyone wants to give me their impressions on my last post, I could really use the advice, thanks Brad

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mastectomy scar tattoo – photo

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somewhere recently, I think in a thread about getting tattoos over scars, someone (Diane Cascioli?) referred to an amazing photo of a woman with a tattoo over a mastectomy scar, but she didn’t know its details. I have a postcard of the photo, which is gorgeous (in a strong, positive, almost inspirational kinda way, though I hate that word b/c it’s been so appropriated and overused by the new age-y self-help channel-your-bitterness-into-rays-of-light find-true-friggin-happiness say-daily-positive-spiritual-affirmations and heal-your-inner-fucking-child bloody industry </bitterness). the details are: ‘The Warrior’, 1980. photo by Hella Hammid. subject is Deena Metzger. ISBN 1-88 1 270-62-9.   copyright Fotofolio, box 661, Canal [insert something that looks like Sta., I can't read my own writing as usual and the postcard is at work], NY 10012.  proceeds benefit Women’s Cancer Resource Center, Berkeley CA. poster available from Tree, PO Box 186, Topanga, CA 90290. BUT, though I only got the postcard a year or two ago, I don’t know how old it was so the address info might be hopelessly out of date. I could scan in the photo and put it up, but that’d probably be contravening copyright…or would it? let me know if anyone wants to see it. andrea

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copyright Fotofolio, box 661, Canal [insert something that looks like Sta., I can't read my own writing as usual and the postcard is at work],

yes, it’s canal street station.  one of the *many* post offices in NYC. david bodyprcng at aol dot com Don’t worry about people stealing your ideas. If your ideas are any good, you’ll have to ram them down people’s throats. — Howard Aiken

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somewhere recently, I think in a thread about getting tattoos over scars, someone (Diane Cascioli?) referred to an amazing photo of a woman with a tattoo over a mastectomy scar, but she didn’t know its details. ‘The Warrior’, 1980. photo by Hella Hammid. subject is Deena Metzger. ISBN 1-88 1 270-62-9.   copyright Fotofolio, box 661, Canal [insert something that looks like Sta., I can't read my own writing as usual and the postcard is at work], NY 10012.  proceeds benefit Women’s Cancer Resource Center, Berkeley CA. poster available from Tree, PO Box 186, Topanga, CA 90290.

Is this the photo of a dark-haired woman with a rose tattoo?  If not, there’s more than one out there.  I saw several photos of a tattooed breast cancer survivor on a documentary a few years ago.  Very powerful. njm

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somewhere recently, I think in a thread about getting tattoos over scars, someone (Diane Cascioli?) referred to an amazing photo of a woman with a tattoo over a mastectomy scar, but she didn’t know its details.

DianA, but yeah, it was me. :) I could scan in the photo and put it up, but that’d probably be contravening copyright…or would it? let me know if anyone wants to see it.

I would really like to see it again. I saw it probably 6 or 7 years ago in a bookstore. It was in a book about women/art (… or something). ;) —  raven- is diana cascioli | Hail to the speaker,         GW Graphic Design | Hail to the knower,       bmeworld.com/raven2 | Joy to him who has understood, gwis2.circ.gwu.edu/~raven | Delight to those who have listened. -Havamal

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I do know that Northern Sun Merchandising sells a poster of a woman with a mastectomy tattoo.  Don’t have address or info on them though.

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – somewhere recently, I think in a thread about getting tattoos over scars, someone (Diane Cascioli?) referred to an amazing photo of a woman with a tattoo over a mastectomy scar, but she didn’t know its details. I have a postcard of the photo, which is gorgeous (in a strong, positive, almost inspirational kinda way, though I hate that word b/c it’s been so appropriated and overused by the new age-y self-help channel-your-bitterness-into-rays-of-light find-true-friggin-happiness say-daily-positive-spiritual-affirmations and heal-your-inner-fucking-child bloody industry </bitterness). the details are: ‘The Warrior’, 1980. photo by Hella Hammid. subject is Deena Metzger. ISBN 1-88 1 270-62-9. copyright Fotofolio, box 661, Canal [insert something that looks like Sta., I can't read my own writing as usual and the postcard is at work], NY 10012.  proceeds benefit Women’s Cancer Resource Center, Berkeley CA. poster available from Tree, PO Box 186, Topanga, CA 90290. BUT, though I only got the postcard a year or two ago, I don’t know how old it was so the address info might be hopelessly out of date. I could scan in the photo and put it up, but that’d probably be contravening copyright…or would it? let me know if anyone wants to see it. andrea

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There are two women with tattooed mastectomy scars shown in the book "Bodies of Subversion" by Margot Mifflin, published by RESearch. The woman with the rose tattoo is Andree Connors, tattoo by Madame Chinchilla, artists lives in California. The second woman, Macia Rasner has a flora/fish design by the same artist.

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I do know that Northern Sun Merchandising sells a poster of a woman with a mastectomy tattoo.  Don’t have address or info on them though.

http://www.northernsun.com 1-800-258-8579 Crystal — Uppity women unite!

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someone (Diane Cascioli?) referred to an amazing photo of a woman with a tattoo over a mastectomy scar, but she didn’t know its details. DianA, but yeah, it was me. :)

whoops, my apologies! I knew that :) contravening copyright…or would it? let me know if anyone wants to see it. I would really like to see it again. I saw it probably 6 or 7 years ago in a bookstore. It was in a book about women/art (… or something). ;)

I’ll probably be at the house of a friend who has a scanner on monday, so I’ll do it then. is your email addy fine to accept pics as attachments? if you, or anyone else wants to display the photo on their site (with full details), or wants a copy via email, let me know. I don’t have a website. andrea

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poster available from Tree, PO Box 186, Topanga, CA 90290. Is this the photo of a dark-haired woman with a rose tattoo?  If not, there’s more than one out there.  I saw several photos of a tattooed breast cancer survivor on a documentary a few years ago.  Very powerful.

the woman in this is more blonde/bruenette I think, and, though I can’t see the tattoo up close, I believe it’s some sort of vine running the length of the scar. andrea

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Inspirational Movies

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One of my favorite movies is The Seventh Sign with Demi Moore. Shiela – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Since I started this topic, I decided to spend a few hours on it. Here’s a list of inspirational movies singled out of my own personal collection for one reason or another. In addition to the "classics," I tried very hard to list several movies that many theatre-going people might have missed entirely. All movies listed should be available. See review sites on the web for more information, e.g., http://allmovie.com/ There are different reasons why each of them are listed, as some of these deal directly with some amount of physical or emotional pain or suffering, some deal with hope, and still others deal with tremendous loss. But of the thousands of movies I’ve seen, and of the hundreds in my own collection, these are the ones that moved or entertained me in some way. This is my own personal list of favorites, and of course the time in which I saw them undoubtedly helped to form my opinion. So your opinion probably will vary from my own. But I can guess that at least some of these will inspire or entertain you. There is a common theme in many of these movies, and many of my choices are influenced by having a teenaged son. As you will see, I like strong character development and a well-written script. You will not find any science fiction movies here, or any movies with "special" effects, unless they are carried by strong characters backed by a strong plot. Well, let’s begin my list, and see if I can surprise you: "The Fisher King" 1991 (Robin Williams, Jeff Bridges, Amanda Plummer, Mercedes Ruehl) This Robin Williams movie is the best example I know of that captures the essence of pain on film. If you’ve never heard of this movie, go rent it and tell me what you think! If I had to describe what it’s like to suffer, I would probably refer to Parry’s visions in this excellent movie. You don’t really see the visions as much as you feel them. And Robin Williams has a kitchen just exactly like my own: "Hey, I know a fabulous place with great ambience!" "Parry" (played by Williams) lends a wonderful description of what the Fisher King is, whilst laying half-naked in the middle of Central Park. "Did you ever hear the story of the Fisher King? … He was sick with experience." Listen to him very carefully. "Scent of a Woman" 1992 (Al Pacino, Chris O’Donnell, James Rebhorn, Gabrielle Anwar) Don’t let the title fool you or drive you away. Al Pacino as Lt. Col. Frank Slade will charm you with a great script, fine scenery, wonderful music, and I almost forgot, no will to live. One of my favorite movies ever made–Hoo Hah! "What’s Eating Gilbert Grape" 1993 (Johnny Depp, Juliette Lewis, Mary Streenburgen, Leonardo Di Caprio) If you loved Leonardo "D" in Titanic, this may spoil it for you! Here you see him as a mentally retarded teenager through the eyes of his "older" brother, Gilbert, who has been forced to become the fulcrum of the family after his father’s suicide. I have liked this film for its realism since it was released many years ago. And if you thought Juliette Lewis was a bit brash in Natural Born Killers, you will love her gentle touch here. "Schindler’s List" 1993 (Liam Neeson, Ben Kingsley, Ralph Fiennes, Caroline Goodall) This movie had to make my own list, as it shows how people can change in life, from doing great harm to doing great good. "The Cure" 1995 (Joseph Mazzello, Brad Renfro, Annabella Sciorra, Diana Scarwid) This is a cute film that got mediocre ratings, but I liked it. If you long for a "cure" in your own life, you will like this. "Forrest Gump" 1994 (Tom Hanks, Robin Wright, Gary Sinise, Mykelti Williamson Sally Field, Michael Conner Humphreys [young Forrest Gump]) This popular movie has been seen by everyone, but it’s still a good one to see over and over. It touches on many things, including hope, patience, love, and understanding. People tend to identify with this movie if they grew up during the Vietnam War years, but the movie touches on myriad issues, including sickness, child abuse, friendship, and love. I think this movie is so powerful because in it we see a slightly mentally deficient (IQ ~75) Forrest Gump make more sense out of this world than any genius ever did: "I know what love IS." My favorite line in this movie (that anyone who suffers a lot in pain can relate to) comes when Gump is describing the nights in Vietnam to his love, Jenny, and he says, "Sometimes it would stop raining long enough for the stars to come out." "Annie Hall" 1977 (Woody Allen, Diane Keaton, Tony Roberts, Carol Kane) You’ve never forgotten where you were and who you were with when you first saw this Woody Allen classic, have you? Maybe it’s time to see it again! "Wrestling Ernest Hemingway" 1993 (Robert Duvall, Richard Harris, Shirley MacLaine, Sandra Bullock) Many of the issues that elderly people deal with are familiar to people who deal with physical pain, regardless of age. This movie captures two very young spirits in two older men. The music in this movie is charming, as are the two main characters. Friends don’t come easy in life, but when they do come, we should cherish them and hold onto them for life. "True Lies" 1994 (Arnold Schwarzenegger, Jamie Lee Curtis, Tom Arnold) I’m generally not impressed by special effects, but this movie is a fine exception and I thoroughly enjoyed it. If you’re tired of seeing Jamie Lee Curtis play the victim, watch her here playing the unsung (but well-hung!) hero. "Planes, Trains, and Automobiles" 1987 (Steve Martin, John Candy, Laila Robins) A classic comedy that deals with the human character and the human condition, performed by two of the best human actors. "The Wedding Banquet" 1993 (Ah-Leh Gua, Sihung Lung, May Chin, Winston Chao, Mitchell Lichtenstein) I like to watch a film without knowing anything about it, so in that spirit, I shall tell you nothing except you will laugh a lot and maybe cry a little, too. (subtitled) "Flirting With Disaster" 1996 (Patricia Arquette, Ben Stiller, Tea Leoni, Alan Alda, Mary Tyler Moore) This movie was a made-for-TV flop in many reviewers’ minds, but we aren’t like most reviewers, are we? I thought this movie was terribly funny, simply charming, and delightful. "Fargo" 1996 (Frances McDormand, Steve Buscemi, William H. Macy, Peter Stormare) Few directors are willing to film in the snow, especially in North Dakota and Minnesota! The music in this film is haunting, and the acting is crisp, dead-on, and intoxicatingly fresh. If you’re from the snow-belt like I am, this movie is a must-see. Don’t feel bad if you talk funny and laugh at tragedies after seeing this movie. And who can out-eat the pregnant Marge Gunderson? "Hiiyee, You Betcha!" "Caddyshack" 1980 (Chevy Chase, Bill Murray, Rodney Dangerfield, Ted Knight) See if you don’t enjoy Bill Murray and his quest to rid the golf greens of the nasty and mean gopher just one more time. "The Immortal Beloved" 1994 (Gary Oldman, Jeroen Krabbe’, Isabella Rossellini) I like movies with good character development, good setting (filmed in Prague), and good music, so this one is a winner. Who cares if it wasn’t too popular; who cares if it doesn’t match history quite exactly! When Beethoven wrote to his Immortal Beloved, "I can live only completely with you or not at all," he had no idea they would turn it into a movie. I’m glad they did! "The Usual Suspects" 1995 (Stephen Baldwin, Gabriel Byrne, Chazz Palminteri, Kevin Pollak, Pete Postlethwaite, Kevin Spacey) I’ve seen this movie umpteen times, and I STILL don’t know who did it! Pay attention, watch this movie, and watch out for you-know-who! "Kolya" 1996 (Zdenek Sverak, Andrej Chalimon, Libuse Safrankova, Ondrej Vetchy) If I start listing too many foreign films here, I may lose any audience I pretend to have! Kolya is less like a film and more like a little boy I met while in Eastern Europe a decade ago. Many exceptional films are made outside of Hollywood, and indeed, outside of the United States. This is one of them. (subtitled) "Dead Poets Society" 1989 (Robin Williams, Robert Sean Leonard, Ethan Hawke, Josh Charles) Another Robin Williams movie made my list, but it’s a bit sad. Okay, it’s a lot sad, but if I say more, you’ll not watch it. This is the movie that many college boys wish their parents would have watched! "Searching for Bobby Fischer" 1993 (Max Pomeranc, Ben Kingsley, Joe Mantegna, Laurence Fishburne) Even if you’re not a chess player, you’ll enjoy this movie. And if you are a chess player, it’s about as close as any movie has ever come to an accurate portrayal of the game. "Dazed and Confused" 1993 (Jason London, Wiley Wiggens, Sasha Jenson, Rory Cochrane) I didn’t make videos of my last year in high school, but since I have this movie, now I can show my son what it was like. This movie "captures" the high school "daze," along with the music, so well we feet transported through time! "The Breakfast Club" 1985 (Emilio Estevez, Judd Nelson, Molly Ringwald, Anthony Michael Hall) This is a captivating movie, so much so that if I’m scanning the cable channels late at night and find it on, I watch it through until the end. If you think that exceptional character development is what makes a good movie, watch this one. "The Sweet Hereafter" 1997 (Ian Holm, Sarah Polley, Bruce Greenwood) Like life itself almost, from the beginning of this movie, we sadly all know what’s going to happen. But we watch it anyway. I think I must watch this movie again–maybe I will understand it better. Or maybe I think it will turn out differently. Each character is examined, and each goes through no small amount of turmoil.

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"Resevoir Dogs" and "The Usual Suspects" are two of my absolute favorite movies! Inspirational? No……good, yes! ..the early bird gets the worm, but the second mouse gets the cheese…

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Damn!  I was just at the video store and looking for something good to watch tonight!!  Your note came in a little late but I’ll save it for later. Thanks, jqt!! Liz – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Since I started this topic, I decided to spend a few hours on it. Here’s a list of inspirational movies singled out of my own personal collection for one reason or another. In addition to the "classics," I tried very hard to list several movies that many theatre-going people might have missed entirely. All movies listed should be available. See review sites on the web for more information, e.g., http://allmovie.com/ There are different reasons why each of them are listed, as some of these deal directly with some amount of physical or emotional pain or suffering, some deal with hope, and still others deal with tremendous loss. But of the thousands of movies I’ve seen, and of the hundreds in my own collection, these are the ones that moved or entertained me in some way. This is my own personal list of favorites, and of course the time in which I saw them undoubtedly helped to form my opinion. So your opinion probably will vary from my own. But I can guess that at least some of these will inspire or entertain you. There is a common theme in many of these movies, and many of my choices are influenced by having a teenaged son. As you will see, I like strong character development and a well-written script. You will not find any science fiction movies here, or any movies with "special" effects, unless they are carried by strong characters backed by a strong plot. Well, let’s begin my list, and see if I can surprise you: "The Fisher King" 1991 (Robin Williams, Jeff Bridges, Amanda Plummer, Mercedes Ruehl) This Robin Williams movie is the best example I know of that captures the essence of pain on film. If you’ve never heard of this movie, go rent it and tell me what you think! If I had to describe what it’s like to suffer, I would probably refer to Parry’s visions in this excellent movie. You don’t really see the visions as much as you feel them. And Robin Williams has a kitchen just exactly like my own: "Hey, I know a fabulous place with great ambience!" "Parry" (played by Williams) lends a wonderful description of what the Fisher King is, whilst laying half-naked in the middle of Central Park. "Did you ever hear the story of the Fisher King? … He was sick with experience." Listen to him very carefully. "Scent of a Woman" 1992 (Al Pacino, Chris O’Donnell, James Rebhorn, Gabrielle Anwar) Don’t let the title fool you or drive you away. Al Pacino as Lt. Col. Frank Slade will charm you with a great script, fine scenery, wonderful music, and I almost forgot, no will to live. One of my favorite movies ever made–Hoo Hah! "What’s Eating Gilbert Grape" 1993 (Johnny Depp, Juliette Lewis, Mary Streenburgen, Leonardo Di Caprio) If you loved Leonardo "D" in Titanic, this may spoil it for you! Here you see him as a mentally retarded teenager through the eyes of his "older" brother, Gilbert, who has been forced to become the fulcrum of the family after his father’s suicide. I have liked this film for its realism since it was released many years ago. And if you thought Juliette Lewis was a bit brash in Natural Born Killers, you will love her gentle touch here. "Schindler’s List" 1993 (Liam Neeson, Ben Kingsley, Ralph Fiennes, Caroline Goodall) This movie had to make my own list, as it shows how people can change in life, from doing great harm to doing great good. "The Cure" 1995 (Joseph Mazzello, Brad Renfro, Annabella Sciorra, Diana Scarwid) This is a cute film that got mediocre ratings, but I liked it. If you long for a "cure" in your own life, you will like this. "Forrest Gump" 1994 (Tom Hanks, Robin Wright, Gary Sinise, Mykelti Williamson  Sally Field, Michael Conner Humphreys [young Forrest Gump]) This popular movie has been seen by everyone, but it’s still a good one to see over and over. It touches on many things, including hope, patience, love, and understanding. People tend to identify with this movie if they grew up during the Vietnam War years, but the movie touches on myriad issues, including sickness, child abuse, friendship, and love. I think this movie is so powerful because in it we see a slightly mentally deficient (IQ ~75) Forrest Gump make more sense out of this world than any genius ever did: "I know what love IS." My favorite line in this movie (that anyone who suffers a lot in pain can relate to) comes when Gump is describing the nights in Vietnam to his love, Jenny, and he says, "Sometimes it would stop raining long enough for the stars to come out." "Annie Hall" 1977 (Woody Allen, Diane Keaton, Tony Roberts, Carol Kane) You’ve never forgotten where you were and who you were with when you first saw this Woody Allen classic, have you? Maybe it’s time to see it again! "Wrestling Ernest Hemingway" 1993 (Robert Duvall, Richard Harris, Shirley MacLaine, Sandra Bullock) Many of the issues that elderly people deal with are familiar to people who deal with physical pain, regardless of age. This movie captures two very young spirits in two older men. The music in this movie is charming, as are the two main characters. Friends don’t come easy in life, but when they do come, we should cherish them and hold onto them for life. "True Lies" 1994 (Arnold Schwarzenegger, Jamie Lee Curtis, Tom Arnold) I’m generally not impressed by special effects, but this movie is a fine exception and I thoroughly enjoyed it. If you’re tired of seeing Jamie Lee Curtis play the victim, watch her here playing the unsung (but well-hung!) hero. "Planes, Trains, and Automobiles" 1987 (Steve Martin, John Candy, Laila Robins) A classic comedy that deals with the human character and the human condition, performed by two of the best human actors. "The Wedding Banquet" 1993 (Ah-Leh Gua, Sihung Lung, May Chin, Winston Chao, Mitchell Lichtenstein) I like to watch a film without knowing anything about it, so in that spirit, I shall tell you nothing except you will laugh a lot and maybe cry a little, too. (subtitled) "Flirting With Disaster" 1996 (Patricia Arquette, Ben Stiller, Tea Leoni, Alan Alda, Mary Tyler Moore) This movie was a made-for-TV flop in many reviewers’ minds, but we aren’t like most reviewers, are we? I thought this movie was terribly funny, simply charming, and delightful. "Fargo" 1996 (Frances McDormand, Steve Buscemi, William H. Macy, Peter Stormare) Few directors are willing to film in the snow, especially in North Dakota and Minnesota! The music in this film is haunting, and the acting is crisp, dead-on, and intoxicatingly fresh. If you’re from the snow-belt like I am, this movie is a must-see. Don’t feel bad if you talk funny and laugh at tragedies after seeing this movie. And who can out-eat the pregnant Marge Gunderson? "Hiiyee, You Betcha!" "Caddyshack" 1980 (Chevy Chase, Bill Murray, Rodney Dangerfield, Ted Knight) See if you don’t enjoy Bill Murray and his quest to rid the golf greens of the nasty and mean gopher just one more time. "The Immortal Beloved" 1994 (Gary Oldman, Jeroen Krabbe’, Isabella Rossellini) I like movies with good character development, good setting (filmed in Prague), and good music, so this one is a winner. Who cares if it wasn’t too popular; who cares if it doesn’t match history quite exactly! When Beethoven wrote to his Immortal Beloved, "I can live only completely with you or not at all," he had no idea they would turn it into a movie. I’m glad they did! "The Usual Suspects" 1995 (Stephen Baldwin, Gabriel Byrne, Chazz Palminteri, Kevin Pollak,  Pete Postlethwaite, Kevin Spacey) I’ve seen this movie umpteen times, and I STILL don’t know who did it! Pay attention, watch this movie, and watch out for you-know-who! "Kolya" 1996 (Zdenek Sverak, Andrej Chalimon, Libuse Safrankova, Ondrej Vetchy) If I start listing too many foreign films here, I may lose any audience I pretend to have! Kolya is less like a film and more like a little boy I met while in Eastern Europe a decade ago. Many exceptional films are made outside of Hollywood, and indeed, outside of the United States. This is one of them. (subtitled) "Dead Poets Society" 1989 (Robin Williams, Robert Sean Leonard, Ethan Hawke, Josh Charles) Another Robin Williams movie made my list, but it’s a bit sad. Okay, it’s a lot sad, but if I say more, you’ll not watch it. This is the movie that many college boys wish their parents would have watched! "Searching for Bobby Fischer" 1993 (Max Pomeranc, Ben Kingsley, Joe Mantegna, Laurence Fishburne) Even if you’re not a chess player, you’ll enjoy this movie. And if you are a chess player, it’s about as close as any movie has ever come to an accurate portrayal of the game. "Dazed and Confused" 1993 (Jason London, Wiley Wiggens, Sasha Jenson, Rory Cochrane) I didn’t make videos of my last year in high school, but since I have this movie, now I can show my son what it was like. This movie "captures" the high school "daze," along with the music, so well we feet transported through time! "The Breakfast Club" 1985 (Emilio Estevez, Judd Nelson, Molly Ringwald, Anthony Michael Hall) This is a captivating movie, so much so that if I’m scanning the cable channels late at night and find it on, I watch it through until the end. If you think that exceptional character development is what makes a good movie, watch this one. "The Sweet Hereafter" 1997 (Ian Holm, Sarah Polley, Bruce Greenwood) Like life itself almost, from the beginning of this movie, we sadly all know what’s going to happen. But

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"Fargo" 1996 (Frances McDormand, Steve Buscemi, William H. Macy, Peter Stormare) Yahhh! "The Usual Suspects" 1995 (Stephen Baldwin, Gabriel Byrne, Chazz Palminteri, Kevin Pollak, Pete Postlethwaite, Kevin Spacey) I’ve seen this movie umpteen times, and I STILL don’t know who did it! Pay attention, watch this movie, and watch out for you-know-who!

Have you seen "Reservoir Dogs"?  The fate of characters is a hot topic on many "RD" web sites.  Graphic but pretty cool! Dan

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Since I started this topic, I decided to spend a few hours on it. Here’s a list of inspirational movies singled out of my own personal collection for one reason or another. In addition to the "classics," I tried very hard to list several movies that many theatre-going people might have missed entirely. All movies listed should be available. See review sites on the web for more information, e.g., http://allmovie.com/ There are different reasons why each of them are listed, as some of these deal directly with some amount of physical or emotional pain or suffering, some deal with hope, and still others deal with tremendous loss. But of the thousands of movies I’ve seen, and of the hundreds in my own collection, these are the ones that moved or entertained me in some way. This is my own personal list of favorites, and of course the time in which I saw them undoubtedly helped to form my opinion. So your opinion probably will vary from my own. But I can guess that at least some of these will inspire or entertain you. There is a common theme in many of these movies, and many of my choices are influenced by having a teenaged son. As you will see, I like strong character development and a well-written script. You will not find any science fiction movies here, or any movies with "special" effects, unless they are carried by strong characters backed by a strong plot. Well, let’s begin my list, and see if I can surprise you: "The Fisher King" 1991 (Robin Williams, Jeff Bridges, Amanda Plummer, Mercedes Ruehl) This Robin Williams movie is the best example I know of that captures the essence of pain on film. If you’ve never heard of this movie, go rent it and tell me what you think! If I had to describe what it’s like to suffer, I would probably refer to Parry’s visions in this excellent movie. You don’t really see the visions as much as you feel them. And Robin Williams has a kitchen just exactly like my own: "Hey, I know a fabulous place with great ambience!"   "Parry" (played by Williams) lends a wonderful description of what the Fisher King is, whilst laying half-naked in the middle of Central Park. "Did you ever hear the story of the Fisher King? … He was sick with experience." Listen to him very carefully. "Scent of a Woman" 1992 (Al Pacino, Chris O’Donnell, James Rebhorn, Gabrielle Anwar) Don’t let the title fool you or drive you away. Al Pacino as Lt. Col. Frank Slade will charm you with a great script, fine scenery, wonderful music, and I almost forgot, no will to live. One of my favorite movies ever made–Hoo Hah! "What’s Eating Gilbert Grape" 1993 (Johnny Depp, Juliette Lewis, Mary Streenburgen, Leonardo Di Caprio) If you loved Leonardo "D" in Titanic, this may spoil it for you! Here you see him as a mentally retarded teenager through the eyes of his "older" brother, Gilbert, who has been forced to become the fulcrum of the family after his father’s suicide. I have liked this film for its realism since it was released many years ago. And if you thought Juliette Lewis was a bit brash in Natural Born Killers, you will love her gentle touch here. "Schindler’s List" 1993 (Liam Neeson, Ben Kingsley, Ralph Fiennes, Caroline Goodall) This movie had to make my own list, as it shows how people can change in life, from doing great harm to doing great good. "The Cure" 1995 (Joseph Mazzello, Brad Renfro, Annabella Sciorra, Diana Scarwid) This is a cute film that got mediocre ratings, but I liked it. If you long for a "cure" in your own life, you will like this. "Forrest Gump" 1994 (Tom Hanks, Robin Wright, Gary Sinise, Mykelti Williamson  Sally Field, Michael Conner Humphreys [young Forrest Gump]) This popular movie has been seen by everyone, but it’s still a good one to see over and over. It touches on many things, including hope, patience, love, and understanding. People tend to identify with this movie if they grew up during the Vietnam War years, but the movie touches on myriad issues, including sickness, child abuse, friendship, and love. I think this movie is so powerful because in it we see a slightly mentally deficient (IQ ~75) Forrest Gump make more sense out of this world than any genius ever did: "I know what love IS." My favorite line in this movie (that anyone who suffers a lot in pain can relate to) comes when Gump is describing the nights in Vietnam to his love, Jenny, and he says, "Sometimes it would stop raining long enough for the stars to come out." "Annie Hall" 1977 (Woody Allen, Diane Keaton, Tony Roberts, Carol Kane) You’ve never forgotten where you were and who you were with when you first saw this Woody Allen classic, have you? Maybe it’s time to see it again! "Wrestling Ernest Hemingway" 1993 (Robert Duvall, Richard Harris, Shirley MacLaine, Sandra Bullock) Many of the issues that elderly people deal with are familiar to people who deal with physical pain, regardless of age. This movie captures two very young spirits in two older men. The music in this movie is charming, as are the two main characters. Friends don’t come easy in life, but when they do come, we should cherish them and hold onto them for life. "True Lies" 1994 (Arnold Schwarzenegger, Jamie Lee Curtis, Tom Arnold) I’m generally not impressed by special effects, but this movie is a fine exception and I thoroughly enjoyed it. If you’re tired of seeing Jamie Lee Curtis play the victim, watch her here playing the unsung (but well-hung!) hero. "Planes, Trains, and Automobiles" 1987 (Steve Martin, John Candy, Laila Robins) A classic comedy that deals with the human character and the human condition, performed by two of the best human actors. "The Wedding Banquet" 1993 (Ah-Leh Gua, Sihung Lung, May Chin, Winston Chao, Mitchell Lichtenstein) I like to watch a film without knowing anything about it, so in that spirit, I shall tell you nothing except you will laugh a lot and maybe cry a little, too. (subtitled) "Flirting With Disaster" 1996 (Patricia Arquette, Ben Stiller, Tea Leoni, Alan Alda, Mary Tyler Moore) This movie was a made-for-TV flop in many reviewers’ minds, but we aren’t like most reviewers, are we? I thought this movie was terribly funny, simply charming, and delightful. "Fargo" 1996 (Frances McDormand, Steve Buscemi, William H. Macy, Peter Stormare) Few directors are willing to film in the snow, especially in North Dakota and Minnesota! The music in this film is haunting, and the acting is crisp, dead-on, and intoxicatingly fresh. If you’re from the snow-belt like I am, this movie is a must-see. Don’t feel bad if you talk funny and laugh at tragedies after seeing this movie. And who can out-eat the pregnant Marge Gunderson? "Hiiyee, You Betcha!" "Caddyshack" 1980 (Chevy Chase, Bill Murray, Rodney Dangerfield, Ted Knight) See if you don’t enjoy Bill Murray and his quest to rid the golf greens of the nasty and mean gopher just one more time. "The Immortal Beloved" 1994 (Gary Oldman, Jeroen Krabbe’, Isabella Rossellini) I like movies with good character development, good setting (filmed in Prague), and good music, so this one is a winner. Who cares if it wasn’t too popular; who cares if it doesn’t match history quite exactly! When Beethoven wrote to his Immortal Beloved, "I can live only completely with you or not at all," he had no idea they would turn it into a movie. I’m glad they did! "The Usual Suspects" 1995 (Stephen Baldwin, Gabriel Byrne, Chazz Palminteri, Kevin Pollak,  Pete Postlethwaite, Kevin Spacey) I’ve seen this movie umpteen times, and I STILL don’t know who did it! Pay attention, watch this movie, and watch out for you-know-who! "Kolya" 1996 (Zdenek Sverak, Andrej Chalimon, Libuse Safrankova, Ondrej Vetchy) If I start listing too many foreign films here, I may lose any audience I pretend to have! Kolya is less like a film and more like a little boy I met while in Eastern Europe a decade ago. Many exceptional films are made outside of Hollywood, and indeed, outside of the United States. This is one of them. (subtitled) "Dead Poets Society" 1989 (Robin Williams, Robert Sean Leonard, Ethan Hawke, Josh Charles) Another Robin Williams movie made my list, but it’s a bit sad. Okay, it’s a lot sad, but if I say more, you’ll not watch it. This is the movie that many college boys wish their parents would have watched! "Searching for Bobby Fischer" 1993 (Max Pomeranc, Ben Kingsley, Joe Mantegna, Laurence Fishburne) Even if you’re not a chess player, you’ll enjoy this movie. And if you are a chess player, it’s about as close as any movie has ever come to an accurate portrayal of the game. "Dazed and Confused" 1993 (Jason London, Wiley Wiggens, Sasha Jenson, Rory Cochrane) I didn’t make videos of my last year in high school, but since I have this movie, now I can show my son what it was like. This movie "captures" the high school "daze," along with the music, so well we feet transported through time! "The Breakfast Club" 1985 (Emilio Estevez, Judd Nelson, Molly Ringwald, Anthony Michael Hall) This is a captivating movie, so much so that if I’m scanning the cable channels late at night and find it on, I watch it through until the end. If you think that exceptional character development is what makes a good movie, watch this one. "The Sweet Hereafter" 1997 (Ian Holm, Sarah Polley, Bruce Greenwood) Like life itself almost, from the beginning of this movie, we sadly all know what’s going to happen. But we watch it anyway. I think I must watch this movie again–maybe I will understand it better. Or maybe I think it will turn out differently. Each character is examined, and each goes through no small amount of turmoil. Beautiful scenes, filmed entirely on the west coast of Canada, are juxtaposed with terrible sadness.                            - jqt –

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Thanks for this list JQT. Marianne TX Complex Migraineur Hugs can be the best for someone in pain.They don’t draw blood, hurt or give bruises like needles. They do start the release of those endorphines we all need. Especially The Drug Challenged.  

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Darn…I just hit the return button and my message went flying into cyberspace before I was anywhere close to having finished it!   So please consider it a draft and the first part of it was only supposed to go to JQT…sigh…  you’re right, Bob, NOBODY’s perfect…. Anne "My inferiority complex is not as good as yours."

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(john quill taylor) Here’s a list of inspirational movies singled out of my own personal collection for one reason or another.

Hmmmm….. well, you see this is what I meant about my choices in inspirational things.   The Fisher King, Fargo and Forrest Gump all depressed me *a lot*!   I thought True Lies and Flirting With Disaster were disappointing, Caddyshack earns a "cute" from me, at best, as does Dazed and Confused.  Dead Poets Society and The Breakfast Club I very much enjoyed  and although I really liked The Usual Suspects, I guessed what all are trying to figure out, within the first hour, so it wasn’t as good after that.   I did love Wrestling Ernest Hemingway, What’s Eating Gilbert Grape, Annie Hall, Scent of a Woman and my favorite of the bunch, Searching for Bobby Fisher.  In fact, anyone who visits me and so much as hints they haven’t seen it is immediately conned into watching it on laser disc.  I even promise not to discuss it with them, afterwards, too, just so they’ll watch it! A few movies that I really find uplifting (to distinguish them from "inspirational" ; ) are: Mindwalk The Last Supper The Seventh Seal Love and Death Man Bites Dog Beauty and the Beast (Cocteau version) The Princess Bride Intruder in the Dust The Heart is a Lonely Hunter To Kill A Mockingbird Tatie Danielle (yes, you heard me! ; ) A Raisin In The Sun Come Back Little Sheba The Rose Tattoo Antonia and Jane A Woman Under The Influence Legends of the Fall They Might Be Giants This Boy’s Life My Life As A Dog The Man Without A Face (hey, it’s got Mel Gibson, what else do you need to know? ; ) Homeward Bound "My inferiority complex is not as good as yours."

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My first tattoo …

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Just wanted advice from someone in the Madison area about the best place to get a tattoo. I went to Tiger Rose Tattoo on State St, and liked the guy there (easy to talk to, and helpful), but wanted to get a 2nd opinion before I scar myself :) On a related note, is it worth going to Chicago to get it done? (meaning, are there some great artists in Chicago)? My tattoo is kinda simple – I want it to look "tribal", but it’s my wife’s name. Thanks!

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Just wanted advice from someone in the Madison area about the best place to get a tattoo. I went to Tiger Rose Tattoo on State St, and liked the guy there (easy to talk to, and helpful), but wanted to get a 2nd opinion before I scar myself :)

Joe, before you do anything, check out Steve’s Tattoo and Body Piercing on Williamson St. in Madison.  Many of my friends have had work done there and been very pleased with the results.  Brian did my tat and I would highly recommend him….if you’re looking for something tribal, contact Carol, she does excellent work as well (she will be doing tat #2 for me sometime this spring or summer).   Good Luck!

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State Min. Age to get Tattoo?

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I have been approached by a parent at our church re: min legal age for kid to get a tattoo.  I was the target for this question since I am apparently the only one in our congregation who is (openly) inked.  I gave them my standard old fart response…"While many would disagree, I would suggest waiting until at least 20+ so you have time to be really sure".  I then assured them that I could find out what were the legalities on a state by state basis in no time on the web.  Boy is my face red! Either I missed it in the FAQ or it’s harder to find than I thought.  Anyone with any info, particularly in the Ohio, Mich, Ind. area? I sincerely hope the answer is "not until 18 even w/ parental consent" but I promised to find out… Thanks in advance for your help. Tim Sanderson

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What state are you in?

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I sincerely hope the answer is "not until 18 even w/ parental consent"

I know thats the law in CA… althoughI think it could be new, because I remember in 96, one girl in my sophmore class got a rose tattoo to cover up some cheezy home tattoo stick figure, and she was 15 at the time, she said the place that she got it done at let her, even though she had to be 16 with consent… Needless to say, this place is now closed down. Waiting till 20? Hmm.. I’ve wanted a tat long as I can remember, and the same thing type a thing since I 8th grade.. 18th b-day, here I come to get inked. Erica "I like sailing and boating." – De’ Band AC http://members.aol.com/redshift17/index.html

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – I have been approached by a parent at our church re: min legal age for kid to get a tattoo.  I was the target for this question since I am apparently the only one in our congregation who is (openly) inked.  I gave them my standard old fart response…"While many would disagree, I would suggest waiting until at least 20+ so you have time to be really sure".  I then assured them that I could find out what were the legalities on a state by state basis in no time on the web.  Boy is my face red! Either I missed it in the FAQ or it’s harder to find than I thought.  Anyone with any info, particularly in the Ohio, Mich, Ind. area? I sincerely hope the answer is "not until 18 even w/ parental consent" but I promised to find out… Thanks in advance for your help. Tim Sanderson

Tim,         Hello!!  I am *almost* positive that here in PA, it is 16 with parental consent!!  Jodi

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Here in arkansas, ( REGULATED STATE ) The health dept has no set age on getting a tattoo, just as long as you have your parents consent…… only money hungry fools would tattoo a minor anyways….

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